Is the mother in Jamaica Kincaid’s “Girl” a good mother?

Is the mother in Jamaica Kincaid’s “Girl” a good mother?
In “Girl”, by Jamaica Kincaid, the mother of the girl is giving her daughter advice, which is being used to both guide and criticize her at the same time. She tells her daughter how to do household chores, behave, and more. Though the mother has good intentions, this story shows the many responsibilities women are expected to have. The community seems to hold a belief that only by having domestic knowledge can a woman bring respect to the family. 
The mother shows her frustration with her daughter through her advice. She believes that her daughter is destined to live an ill life, just because of the way she acts. For example, the girl squats down to play marbles (to which the mother responds “you are not a boy”). The mother seems to think that her advice will not work, constantly hinting that the girl wants to live as “the slut I have warned you against becoming”. 
It seems that the idea that women must act a certain way to be respected is an idea held by the community, not the mother herself. The mother’s intentions are mainly to help her daughter live a good life, but that only in doing these will she be respected is a flawed idea, at least by today’s standards. She could have been more accepting of her daughter, but again, I feel that she was merely going by the unspoken rules of the community at the time in the story.

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